In the last article, we talked about how ignoring is short-term comfort, but long-term self-sabotage that we do to ourselves without realizing it. We said that even if we can't give up this behavior instantly, we can learn to live with it by recognizing it

Sometimes we know that something we are doing is wrong, that it doesn't benefit us, that it even harms us, but we can't stop doing it. No matter how much we are aware of it, we will behave in the same way and naturally get the

We always see mistakes as a deficiency, as a flaw, as a source of shame, as something that shouldn't be. In this section, we'll look at this from a different angle, we'll look at how we can use our mistakes to improve ourselves, and

We have all heard it said about casinos and games of chance that "the house always wins" or "the system always wins." Those of you who have read my previous articles will know that I see man as a being who, willingly or unwillingly, keeps going

In the second part of our series, we will examine whether we can make our lives better by applying the agile methodologies we use in companies where we develop software to our lives. In order to examine this, first I need to briefly explain how the software processes progress. Let&

Abraham Maslow, whom we know with the concept of Maslow's pyramid, has another lesser known but striking metaphor... Maslow's hammer! Through this hammer Maslow tells us briefly the following: He who has a hammer in his hand sees everything as a nail.(1*) Although Maslow says

A thousand kinds of things happen to us in life. Sometimes we are faced with a difficult situation, sometimes we are wronged, sometimes we are victimized by something we never wanted to be victimized. At such times, most people advise us to "accept" the situation. But we are

As if to live out the Greek philosopher Heraclitus' statement "the only thing that does not change is change itself", people constantly want to change. In order to do so, they make promises to themselves, they say things like "I will never do that again, I